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My ex is a lying cheating whore

So many of us have had similar experiences sometime in life. One left me when I was in my early 20's so she could take a tumble with whomever she pleased. Six months later, she was pleased. Called me and said Please let me come back.My response, you got what you wanted. live with it. If only Travis Tritt had written here's a quarter back then even though at the time it was a dime.Last time I heard shes a miserable ornery drunk. The one I've had for the rest of a lifetime is a prize. Sometimes in the long run, things work out.
 
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Wouldn't that be Time to pay the Bassist?
 
I tend to lack fiscal self control at strip clubs. Last time I went I was pulling this girl's hair, I asked her to fake one for me.
I'm actually old fashioned i like the hunt. I eat what I kill. But I don't feel like dating right now nor attending this perfumed gymnasium of delight.
Truth is I just want to go to church & get off the ride.
True that between the first and the second of my (failed) marriages was just too short. Feels weird to be alone. NO "relations" in-between..:spit: found one that i liked independent freethinker that was a challenge. marriage was 8 years of ....
then the L.C.H. drained my finances with trips, gifts, to "save what we had" and then literally filed BK leaving me holding the bag for 100k (no house just soft debt)

10 years (not celibate, but definitely no emotional investment needed the me time) from my (L.C.H.)till:

Lucked out big time with the one that i'm with now (5 years):hyper:
Beauty, sweet, smart, singer appreciates and encourages me to continue with my music.... everything that #2 wasn't #2 in retrospect was well just #2;)
 
O.P.: sorry to hear. All the advice about moving on, being happy, as the best revenge, it's true, just takes time.

I know, currently going through the same thing. Let's just say it is even worse when there are children involved and the cheating spouse tries to use them try to manipulate you.

What keeps me going is that I've tried to do the right thing every step of the way and I know it. And she on the other hand... Well, not enough negative words to describe what she's become.

And I've seen this happen before. It's typical... When she snaps out of it, she will see the grass is not greener, find herself alone, and have alienated her family. And she will have to live with her choices.
 
Just to redress the balance a little here...lots of bitter, angry men overusing the word 'whore', which to be honest is crass and tasteless.

Maybe she cheated on you (not the OP in particular, but generally) because you were no good in the sack?

I've never been cheated on, because I am so damn hot between the sheets.