Safe words are an absolute. Everything stops for ANY reason. If somebody doesn't stop after a safe word they are dangerous!I haven't seen that, or wanted to, but a few years ago ran into an acquaintance who used to be on the tech team at church but suddenly developed attendance problems, and got dropped off the rotation. When I encountered him in the hardware store, he had a brutal-looking wound above his knee. I said 'Dude, what the heck happened?' and he answered 'bicycle chain.' As I was pondering how a bicycle chain gets wrapped so perfectly there, without leaving any other marks, he showed me a lashing spot on his shoulder... and casually mentioned that the church didn't appreciate his lateness to tech team, but they clearly didn't understand that he couldn't just leave in the middle of a BDSM shoot. I mean, the safe word is for like emergencies, not 'I gotta get going now' situations.
Oh.