I think there are 63 replies so far. Normally a modal question will run on, and on, and on. Making it more confusing for the OP as we add other thoughts. With that in mind. A thought unloosened last night.
Relative modes .............................. Parallel modes.
Ionian C, D, E, F, G, A, B................. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7
Dorian.... D, E, F, G, A, B, C ........... 1, 2, b3, 4, 5, 6, b7
Now we all know that a D scale is not D, E, F, G, A, B, C, but if we take the D scale .... D, E, F#, G, A, B, C# and flat the 3rd and the 7th we get Dorian.
Where does this take us?