Before I ramble I just want to say what a fantasic read this thread has been. There has been some deeply philosophical insight into all aspects of the final "sound".
Just a realisation I had a month or so ago:
Since the purchase of my first stompbox 8 or so years ago my collection grew slowly. However, in the last 18 months it ballooned!!!! I was constructing increasingly large pedalboards to house them all and would sometimes gig with every single one out of pride and vanity, even if I wasn't using them all!!! Anyway, the more time I spent here the more I craved (Anders Östberg, I hear ya!). Anyway; inevitably, with running so many fallible components between my instrument and amplification, I was getting intermittent "cut-out" problems. After many failed attempts to locate the source of the problem I just plugged the lead straight into the amp and played clean for the duration of the practise.
Wow! What a great tone I had! I think it helped a lot that I bought high quality amplification equipment, but there it was: great tone. I hadn't realised the gradual attrition that was sucking my tone, because it was so gradual. I played like this for a month or so and it has really helped me tweak my sounds. I concentrate more on achieving the sound I want using the preamp on the head, bass preamp and playing technique. Now that I've achieved this realisation I feel I can re-approach effects in a different light.
For me they are usefull tools control the ultimate sound. I now very carefully consider what I will NEED, not what I can shoehorn into a song (which was sometimes the case) or what I THINK I need to achieve a sound. I was often like "IF only I had "X" effect I could achieve the sound I want for this song". Whereas now I try to approach the sound from a more open minded point of view and experiment with preamps and technique to see what sounds good. In short, stating with the basics and working my way up.
I am still a keen effects advocate but now they are the last consideration, not one of the first. I play in a sort of experimental/technical rock band and there are only three instrumentalists to fill out the sound. I've learnt that I can do this more effectively w/o effects. However, I still love the "colour" I can achieve using effects carefully. They are for me, but not for everyone. A hypothetical replacement in the band may not use any, but that would be their sound quality.
I am now keen to continuously improve my technique, knowledge and groove as these are the origin of the "good sound". So I cant stay here and chat..... I have to practise.
(Now where's my Q-tron???

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