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Problems with Girls

Scorpion you are overthinking it.....

Most girls have made up there mind what they're going to do within five minutes of meeting a guy.

'Conversation' is an "interview' and "fishing trip" for them.

No matter what you say they will be forming their own opinion of you regardless. They are entertained by just how far guys are willing to incriminate themselves with the calculated "guy b.s.".

They have a guy figured out from the getgo usually...the trick is they don't let you know that.

Being "yourself" can be counterproductive.......if you are the type of guy that never smiles and is always "negative"....thats' not good.

Women love a happy guy.......(not "nutball" happy...or "contrived, overbearing, forced" happy.....just normal sanely happy).

(Being a chronic joke-teller does not equate to " happy guy".).....but they like a sense of humour.....

If you are a thoroughly negative person...then you need to work on that. (I don't know if you are or not).

There is a Jill for every Jack.........