Exactly.I only use IEM’s when I have no choice in the matter. Hate em with a passion. Too much disconnect from the audience. Had crew guys that were kind enough to make a platform with buttshakers that was about 4’x4’, but who the heck wants to stand on a tiny platform all night just so your bass can sound sorta like a bass?
People only hear your bass out of FOH? Not for the majority of my gigs. I do tons of gigs where the bass isn’t in the PA at all.
As for the “just plug into a DI and let the sound person deal with it because no one listens or cares about bass anyway” argument. That’s just heartbreaking. If you really think that, I can’t imagine why you’d bother playing music in the first place.
I’ll be bringing amps and cabs, thanks
Whether or not anyone in the audience will notice, or care... I will care about how my bass sounds. Ultimately I'm the first listener I have to please.