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Relationship Q

#41
Well...right now it seems as if its over.

We only speak via whatsapp. because she lives in Rome and I still live in Chicago.
So..obviously the whole long distance thing also comes into play.

Even with the arguing...would I be with her right now? Heck yeah!

Heck..she wanted to build / repair a Harley with my dad! I'm not a motorcycle guy..my dad was and My girl..my goodness..she knows wayyyy too much about Harleys..but its so cool too.

Yeah..I fell into a relationship of a lifetime..someone that got me, was just naturally cool, naturally awesome and wonderful.....of course like a typical guy..I screw it up.

If theres a will theres a way. I have the will. I definately have the will....I need the way.
 
#42
chicago_mike said:
How many arguments can you have with your g/f of who is 110% Italian??

GEEZ!!!!!!!


So....right now we havent talked since this past thursday. Online, or text....

I'm making sure I dont obsess, if it's over, then it's over.:bawl:

But..if it's not....do I try to talk to her or do I wait for her to want to speak with me?

As typical, its the guys fault.:hmm::bawl::crying::atoz:

A couple questions answered:
1. Do I love her? YES!:hyper:
2. Could I be with her, even with the arguing?? YES!!:hyper::hyper:
3. .crap I forgot what the last q was..but the answer is YES!:hyper:


NO PICS cause I dont want any of youse' guys tryin ta get in on dis!:spit:
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To the dumping grounds.

My girl, straight out from the beginning was maybe shy, or at least straight faced, but willing to let go.

If both of you is gonna be happy, one if you are gonna let go or it's curtains for that relationship in short order.
 
#45
chicago_mike said:
Well...right now it seems as if its over.

We only speak via whatsapp. because she lives in Rome and I still live in Chicago.
So..obviously the whole long distance thing also comes into play.

Even with the arguing...would I be with her right now? Heck yeah!

Heck..she wanted to build / repair a Harley with my dad! I'm not a motorcycle guy..my dad was and My girl..my goodness..she knows wayyyy too much about Harleys..but its so cool too.

Yeah..I fell into a relationship of a lifetime..someone that got me, was just naturally cool, naturally awesome and wonderful.....of course like a typical guy..I screw it up.

If theres a will theres a way. I have the will. I definately have the will....I need the way.
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Time to move on bro...

you'll go through several relationship of a lifetime scenarios before you find "the one". This to will pass.
 
#48
Ah, actual Italian (rather than an Italian-American - which is a different animal).
In my experience Italians are just passionate about everything. [\i]
Let her blow off steam and just accept her for what she is. Or don't and move on. BTW I do have experience in this.
It's who they are. They are pretty too.

Also, Google "TMGAIHAA"
She's German, but same thing.

Disclaimer. I am not responsible for the time you will spend reading the site above, laughing, and crying. Oh, and dying a little inside.
 
#50
I think the most important thing here is that '69 Jazz Bass. If you get it and things don't work out and it's too painful to play or even look at, I'll take it off your hands. I'll even let you do a tax write-off on it for donating it to me. That's just the kinda guy I am.

In all seriousness, wow. I met a girl who's a state over from me and I'm contemplating the "long distance implications" of that. Much respect to you for dating someone who lives clear across the ocean. But if you're currently arguing about things and you're not even in person, I take it's safe to say that you're not compatible. But it sounds like you have some awesome memories.
 
#52
Relic said:
Well, that's really not too far off from what I was saying. I'm thinking specifically about negative stereotypes. I think that stereotypes have to have a genesis from somewhere, I dont think that they're just pulled out of thin air for no reason at all. However, what the genesis is/was and what it's based on can be quite different from what the popular stereotype claims.
Maybe it is/was a difference in wealth/poverty levels, culture, language or mannerism that spawns it, but far too often it's been historically used to demonize and vilify a particular population, usually a ethnic/racial/national minority. What is maybe a basic misunderstanding of culture, etc, can become something else quite derogatory used to subjugate or even dehumanize a population.
Look at your statement: "that in general, are true". The fact that the phrase "in general" is used kind of renders it moot in a way. If you're not talking about an entire population, only some, it becomes even more cloudy. Know what I mean? (or maybe I misunderstood you, apologies if so)
But Asian chicks in general are completely smoking hot, don't get me wrong. :)
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Shut up Relic! You talk too damn much!
 
#58
heres some tips i've learned in life if i had it all over...

never be angry, they will always use that against you and you will be the bad person, you wont win ever...

the best defence is to be happy, outgoing, great to be around, general all round good guy, this way they know that if they walk from you, you would easily get another to replace them.

never be phased when theres a big argument brewing, just laugh it off. dont be the one to chase....tell her your going out with friends but dont say male or female, and you like going out with friends cause they love you and life is great....your just a happy go lucky guy

never be jealous, if she wants to be with a guy friend for lunch... so say....excellent its good to hang out with friends occasionally and encourage her to do her thing....while you do yours, cause your a great guy to hang out with etc and have lots of friends...

Be the guy who has no concerns and alot of influence....

Be a loyal guy who does good for others....help out people in need....

Be alot of of fun to be around....trying new things etc, thrills etc never dull around you etc

Play an acoustic guitar and write some songs about your girl....

Be the best guy in the world and the rest will sort itself out
 
#60
Lets just say she wore naughty nurse outfits, naughty red riding hood outfits..and the like.

So yes I am venting. And yes right now we aren't on speaking terms.

I do appreciate the advise. I really do. Its up to me. What do I really want and how far will I go to get it and can I let go if it is not meant to be.
 

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