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Relationship Q

Lets just say she wore naughty nurse outfits, naughty red riding hood outfits..and the like.

So yes I am venting. And yes right now we aren't on speaking terms.

I do appreciate the advise. I really do. Its up to me. What do I really want and how far will I go to get it and can I let go if it is not meant to be.

Don't chase the girl (if that's your plan). That just comes off as desperate and unattractive. Like another TB'er said, just be a great guy who's fun to be around, who has a lot of friends, who doesn't let things phase him, and who wouldn't let a girl keep him down. If it's meant to be then it'll drive her crazy and (maybe) she'll come back, and if not then you're still in a great position to find someone new.
 
damn Skippy!!

Its funny when you give advise to others..but then you cant tell yourself the same damn advise! I know what I'm supposed to do..but....ahhh..you know...

Happens to the best of us :)

Always harder said than done, but try not to think about her or do things that you'd normally associate with her. Try to get out and have fun, maybe flirt with some ladies at a bar and try to get some numbers... You know the drill :)