Wow, this thread has been a trip. Your ex-BL needs to think about his role as leader. The answer could have been as simple and communicating with the booker that an extended set would mean filler/lesser songs and the timeslot could have been potentially altered to avoid all of this.
As a booker, I will say one of my most peeved moments was when I booked a band to play a 90 minute set. They went on 15 minutes late and only played 45 minutes. When they were coming down the steps off the stage, I asked why they were taking a break. Their response? "We play punk. No one plays punk for more than 45 minutes." I told them we have a contract for 90 minutes of performance. Their response? "Once again, we are punk. Contracts don't matter."
Needless to say, I never booked them again, and the band faded from the local scene. Too bad, because they were really, really good. Just not professional.
Have attitude on the stage for the audience and show. Leave it there and be a decent, upstanding person off the stage. Honor your contact and keep your word.
As a booker, I will say one of my most peeved moments was when I booked a band to play a 90 minute set. They went on 15 minutes late and only played 45 minutes. When they were coming down the steps off the stage, I asked why they were taking a break. Their response? "We play punk. No one plays punk for more than 45 minutes." I told them we have a contract for 90 minutes of performance. Their response? "Once again, we are punk. Contracts don't matter."
Needless to say, I never booked them again, and the band faded from the local scene. Too bad, because they were really, really good. Just not professional.
Have attitude on the stage for the audience and show. Leave it there and be a decent, upstanding person off the stage. Honor your contact and keep your word.