Ah, a war of rotten attitudes! Whose is smellier?
No, seriously. You sound now like a reasonable fellow, so let me try to explain what ticked me off about your comment more than the others. Prepare for long-windedness!
First of all, I agree that bad things happen everywhere.
I mean no personal attack, it's just that your post was the perfect example how much of a jerk move is all this generalizing and then acting like you know everything about foreign matters. And that I can't stand.
You said, and I quote:
Your wording lumped pretty much every country in the world as "overseas" only then to act as an some kind of superior expert on how "those people" (everyone not in the U.S., apparently) live. Very badly, it seems! A lot worse cases! Doesn't it sound like "overseas" is a crappy place? It sure sounded like that me.
You didn't name names, you just vaguely implied badness in every single country except your own. It read and felt close-minded and xenophobic. If that wasn't your intention, than I apologize.
Also, it appeared to me like your main complaint was that "star status" wasn't enough to make authorities give people special treatment in "overseas" countries. That also annoyed me, because no "star" should be able to break the laws just because they're famous. It sounded to me like you meant "in my country stars can do anything, and that's the way it should be". That annoyed me even more! More failures in communication?
The "Mexico and Canada" was an attempt of humor on the extreme meaningless of that condescending "overseas" crap. What the heck does that mean anyway? Is Mexico overseas? Canada?
I could walk, Forrest Gump-style, right out of my home in Curitiba all the way to yours in New Jersey if I wanted (and, of course, the border police let me). Am I overseas? Does the Panama canal count as a sea?
You used a very lazy-minded, annoying generalization with the unfortunate choice of wording "life overseas is this and that". That's all. And talking as if you know all about the lives of foreign people from all over just because you've visited some places rubs me the wrong way. You're not going to see me saying "americans are such and such" because I saw something on TV. It's just not right.
Hey, sorry if I singled you out. Maybe you're right, this thread gave me bad vibes and it was unfair of me to just focus on two lines of, perhaps, badly worded but honest opinions. Your stuff wasn't even the bashiest! Feel free to think I'm thin headed, or thick headed, or whatever makes you happier.
What countries were you talking about, anyway? What did you actually mean by "this is the life overseas"? Who are "those people"? Maybe if you stop implying generalities and start explaining specifics your words won't have such a negative effect on easily-annoyed, excessively wordy guys like me. I just like a good debate.
I'm genuinely curious now about what bad things you have seen, and where, to post such a telling little comment on how bad things are elsewhere.
I can see you are a debater, and im sorry you seen things in a different way. What i do is make music and that is what i'm about. The details of where i have been and what i have seen is not what this thread is about ,and i will leave it like that. I do not seek a war of words with any one on TB. Every ones words do not agree with all people as been posted by others.
Once again i'm about making music .and don't care much about debating issues. I will have to end this with a
Very different!!
