There is often an implicit assumption around here that the player is a moron and this his or her needs are always secondary to those of the sound guy/girl. Now, I will say, I have almost never had an attitude issue with a soundperson, but I tend to get along with pretty much everybody, and I don't make demands on people who I'm not paying. I have indeed had issues where the FOH sound was terrible, but it's not because they cut me out of the mix, more like they boosted the club-sounding lows. I wish the audience could always hear what I hear in my head, but at the end of the day I'm happy if I can hear myself.
I carry a micro amp and a 410 (soon to be a fEARful 15/6/1), so it's not a visually intimidating setup. Maybe that's part of it, an 810 is quite a statement to make. You would hope the sound person hears with their ears only, but... If it's for visual impact only, maybe put the 810 out there but play through something small. Lots of very successful bands have been doing that for years.
I carry a micro amp and a 410 (soon to be a fEARful 15/6/1), so it's not a visually intimidating setup. Maybe that's part of it, an 810 is quite a statement to make. You would hope the sound person hears with their ears only, but... If it's for visual impact only, maybe put the 810 out there but play through something small. Lots of very successful bands have been doing that for years.