You made a lot of good points, but I gotta ask -- have you ever had an instance where the conductive adhesive on copper shielding tape has dried out or lost conductivity? I have never had that happen. If you have experienced it, then I suggest it was probably because you didn't fully engage the adhesive to the wood when you first put it on.
I use multiple layers of thin (0.6mm) copper tape with conductive adhesive, and I press down hard on every bit of the tape with the back of my fingernail or spoon or something. That seats the adhesive firmly onto the wood, and after that it isn't going anywhere. It also smoothes out any wrinkles that might have arisen when I laid down the tape. That said, I also use solder. But solder isn't going to make the adhesive stick to the wood any better, and I don't use a "gob" of solder anywhere.
Oh, and copper tape with conductive adhesive is not expensive. You'll pay a lot more than you have to if you buy it from StewMac, where it
is expensive, but if you get it from
ebay, it's probably cheaper than you can find in a hardware store with
non-conductive adhesive (seriously, $6 for a 100' roll!).
One more thing -- since the purpose of shielding is to conduct unwanted energy to ground, you want it to conduct as best as it possibly can. Therefore, it is silly to intentionally use copper foil that has non-conductive adhesive. If cost isn't an issue, and it's not, then there isn't any reason to prefer using non-conductive adhesive over conductive adhesive.