My rig was quite audible but was noticeably better the next time. Same rig.
Dismissing your audiences ears is done at your peril. My opinion.
I have heard many bands that you couldn't tell what kind of instruments are being used much less what amps. So I get it when people say it doesn't matter. Imagine if you will if each musician carefully selected their tools and sonically slotted themselves so each is very distinct. Then even in loud rock n roll you can hear that the guitarist switched from his PRS to a Tele.
This I when the subtleties come out.
I support you standing by your opinion. May we share audiences one day.