Of course! When you solve the problem for the case where the mass of the sun slowly disappears you need to come up with a physical explanation for the process before you can solve the problem of what happens to an object in motion around the sun. Suppose the sun loses mass by slowly ejecting it due to increased radiation pressure. As the mass leaves the vicinity of the sun and expands outward past the Earth's orbit it will exert less of a gravitational pull inward and result in a larger orbit. But this process is not going to pose any relativistic problems for "instantaneous" effects on Earth's orbit. Any hypothetical problem of lessening mass that does pose such a problem will also necessarily be paradoxical.
I feel like you are just being overly argumentative for kicks...
Of course we realize that realistically the Sun cannot just disappear instantaneously. It's a thought experiment... For this purpose we can ignore certain aspects of the problem in order to demonstrate a principle.
BTW, I didn't make this thought experiment up, Einstein did... He seemed like a pretty smart guy and didn't seem to have any qualms about approaching an obviously complex and incredibly unintuitive theory in this manner. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that the majority of Einsteins breakthroughs were initially approached in this way.
The man didn't start with the whole theory of relativity and then set about to experimentally prove it in it's entirety. He thought up little thought experiments (initially ones having to do with light) and worked out the implications, gradually building the full theory.
Do you approach other hypothetical queries in the same manner?
"Would you kill Hitler in 1935 if you could"
"It's the year 2007, besides I wasn't even born then. Thats not possible."
"Imagine what your life would be like if you were born [rich/a different race/a man/woman]"
"But I am already me, there is no way to make that happen, what a silly thing to say. Do you need mental health treatment, you are talking crazy."
Hypothetical situations and thought experiments serve a purpose for scientists. They let them explore the implications of theories without having to worry about all the extraneous details. This is especially useful for sciences that require a more 'creative mind' such as quantum or astro-physics because attempting to hold the whole thing in your head is a ticket to insanity.