My main goal is to just play out. I realize that I will likely never make it big or anything. Play shows, record some stuff, eventually make an album or something maybe. Maybe minor touring WAY out in the future. Nothing huge. I'd be fine staying local, I just want some people to want it like I do, instead of just claiming they do.
That's the big thing that's hard to get right, having everyone on the same page. It takes time to figure that out, too - no one will actually say that they'll be not motivated or will start showing up less often. That takes time to figure out.