Well, I have some good news to report.
After a
ssllooww legal process, the divorce became official in early May. Shortly afterwards my ex and son moved to their new home. Since then, I live alone.
Now living alone is the part I dreaded. I lived alone for some time when I was
very young , and I couldn't do it. I barely kept myself alive, but wasn't able to make money or keep the house clean. Long story. So naturally I've been wondering if this time around I'd do any better.
Turns out I'm doing well. I go to bed on time, I go to work on time, I do the laundry and other chores. I cook healthy food for myself, and I regularly go for a run.
Also, I'm drinking less alcohol, I'm drinking less coffee, and I'm eating less candy. I even practice the band music more.
So to my surprise, I'm starting to feel this divorce was actually a good idea.