When he gets mad, I often get better.
That means to me that I'm being lazy and playing below my ability.
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When he gets mad, I often get better.
Well, I maintained 20 students a week on average for a couple of decades, and I had to limit it to that number because of other obligations. I always had a waiting list. The local high school band leaders all new me and approved, because I was sending them some very qualified bass players ready to read and execute intermediate jazz pieces. Most students stayed with me for over three years, so your view would put you in a very small minority. In fact, I never had a student quit because I occasionally used a little TAB tastefully and appropriately.
I knowI mentioned the tabs for another poster who cannot read at all.
You're not actually telling me anything I don't already know. I know a lot of people use tab and just hang on to it for dear life.
I don't think you knew jack about me, yet you assumed and seemed to jump to the worst-case scenario in addressing my experience and methods as a teacher.
I can assure you all my students who stayed with me became competent sight readers in standard notation. Nobody paid me to serve solely as a live TAB subscription.
That means to me that I'm being lazy and playing below my ability.
Your key word is ME. I had put in good shed time on the song. I just did not notice something I should have noticed.
Edited... there's a big difference between annoyed and mad.Uh...in the title of the thread...
Your key word is ME. I had put in good shed time on the song. I just did not notice something I should have noticed.
Circuses train their animals by beating them. It doesn't mean it's the best way to do it.

I don’t like the word snowflake, but I will agree that artists of all types should be able to field constructive criticism easily. It’s hard to fully tell whether that’s what we’re talking about here though. I don’t think wigging out as a student is productive though.Edited... there's a big difference between annoyed and mad.
I'll add...another edit.... I'm ashamed that there are so many snowflake bassist... I thought we were tougher than that.
If there was a better term than snowflake, I couldn't come up with it. I'd be more than willing to accept an alternative term.I don’t like the word snowflake, but I will agree that artists of all types should be able to field constructive criticism easily. It’s hard to fully tell whether that’s what we’re talking about here though. I don’t think wigging out as a student is productive though.
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I am really working on getting a handle on reading. I had been working on a fairly “” “easy” song, Sitting on the Dock of the Bay. I say easy in quotes because Duck Dunn was a master of a subtle change here or there that really brought songs to life. In working on the song, I missed a few spots and I made on significant mistake: I missed the coda. My teacher was annoyed in that he said this is a song I could easily learn by ear, and it should not have taken me so long to read it to the extent that I did. Thinking back, I was tempted to say that I don’t need to pay for ear training. I am trying to learn to truly read, I mess up, but I take it seriously. I have learned some pretty hard stuff by ear, but at least reading parts leads to much better results for me than my ear alone.
I am really working on getting a handle on reading. I had been working on a fairly “” “easy” song, Sitting on the Dock of the Bay. I say easy in quotes because Duck Dunn was a master of a subtle change here or there that really brought songs to life. In working on the song, I missed a few spots and I made on significant mistake: I missed the coda. My teacher was annoyed in that he said this is a song I could easily learn by ear, and it should not have taken me so long to read it to the extent that I did. Thinking back, I was tempted to say that I don’t need to pay for ear training. I am trying to learn to truly read, I mess up, but I take it seriously. I have learned some pretty hard stuff by ear, but at least reading parts leads to much better results for me than my ear alone.
I figured out years ago the less I read the better I play ...
Also most sheet music and tabs are wrong and some badly wrong ...
For me a good ear is more important than good reading skills
Real talk, I teach for a living (not music related) this is a surefire sign. Also, just because you can do something doesn't mean you will be a good teacher. Knowing thing and effectively conveying that information are two separate skill sets.A teacher who gets mad at students for making a mistake is a bad teacher.