I’m working on a lighter touch when playing live as well, but it both of my bands it’s tricky. If I push the volume on the amp to be able to be present against loud drummer(s), then I feel I’m overpowering, but if I go conservative, then I end up playing harder on the right hand to “try” to compensate. Both rigs I use live are very low end heavy, especially the AD200/OBC115, and even though the TB500/2xOBC112 is strong in the lows, sometimes I have to push the levels to keep up. Not usually getting to play places with full PA support also means I’m counting on the amp to deliver all the sound (as well as the rest of the instruments) to the whole venue, so conservative volume levels sometimes equates to not being heard.
Definitely working on the lighter touch when practicing and recording.