Please don't think of us as "Enablers".
Instead, just think of us as concerned brothers and sisters helping you manage your addiction in a responsible way.
An Enabler would give you money to buy a Bird or would just give you a Bird to feed your addiction. We would never do anything like that, that would be irresponsible. We just bring to your attention that there might be a specific instrument available that may interest you, and we trust you're good judgement on any purchasing decision you should make. See the difference, we treat you as an adult who knows what's best for him or herself, not as a quivering mess of a player looking for their next TBird fix.
An Enabler would use the TBird acquisition formula of n+ALL.
We are much kinder and gentler and know that any addiction must be managed one step at a time, therefore we use the n+1 formula.