Life’s adventures. My parents are pushing ninety. They still live in the same house that they bought in ‘68 when Dad Moved us from San Diego to Vandenberg. My brother and I are starting to game plan for the inevitable. We’ve been extremely fortunate so far re any significant issues.No, just to a bigger house about 15 minutes away. My mother will be 85 next month and has macular degeneration and has difficulty seeing. Her mind is just fine but at her age she has difficulty getting around some and her eyesight is very poor to say the least. As a result she’s getting nervous about living alone, so we need to make her feel more comfortable in that respect. As a result we are buying a bigger house, one with a large walkout basement that has plenty of light and room to make it feel like her own space. It has a kitchen, full bath etc. (She will have access to the upstairs as well, so she's not being banished to a basement, though it is nice.) Sounds unkind, but my mother can be intense. She's German-Dutch (and nothing else), and has a thought on most everything and has spent a lot of time getting there. Like I told my wife when dating, you can argue with her, but you darn well better know what you're talking about or you will soon find out you don't! Her brain is still likely better than most 40 yr olds in many respect, which has helped her do really well with her investing. She can be as kind and giving as anyone, but she can be trying at times as well. On top of that, I really, really dislike moving. Seems so overwhelming, especially having to sell both our house and her's and move her as well. It is a really nice place and we will enjoy living there, but it's just getting there that is unnerving. Nice view of a golf course, but I don't golf--I just don't like looking out at someone else's house or junk.
By the way, your wife is a Saint.
, which I assume is somewhere in Korea...)
