Sorry to hear that but glad your finding something that works for you.
While I wouldn't say I've lightened my touch as much as I need to I have taken off quite a bit of time and now that I've getting back to it I'm retraining myself and these strings have allowed me to do that and still get a satisfying tone. Worked on the farm then as a bicycle mechanic for 20 years and just tore my hands up. Broke and smashed fingers, knuckles and my wrist many times.
My action is the same, maybe lower than I was getting with the DR’s and I play over the bridge pickup 90% so it’s always high tension. For about a year of two before switching to Dunlops I was doing custom sets of 100-80-60-45 Lo-Riders and that worked pretty good but I was playing a lot at the time and I was only getting one or two weeks out of a set (my hands don't really sweat much either).
My issue is in both hands and even though I don’t pluck with my right ring and pinky my the pain messes with my plucking fingers in pain and muscle memory. Was just destroying my finger tips on 4 hour gigs with heavier tension strings, played a gig with medium Chromes on the Jazz and it killed me! At this weekends gig I was playing a bunch of songs that had that plucked-at-the-base-of-the-neck kind of tone and I will say that I've had to alter my touch when playing that far forward. It's a different feel to try to do Motown, mid/neck pickup kind of stuff if your dependent on that tight, bouncy string but so far I've been adapting in a good way.
The other reason we use Super Brights; Finley likes them, he says they're delicious.
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