Sounds like your drummer is a really nice person who wants you both to excel. This is my truism: Good drummers are good listeners. I bet you will 'break the ice' if you pick and play a song both of you know well.
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I'm still fairly new to bass, so I'm working on my chops to be able to come up with basslines and have fun jamming. Met a drummer thru a friend, and he invited me to jam. After insisting for a couple of months, I finally got the courage to do it. Got there thinking I was going to follow his lead since he's been playing for 15 years, but somehow he was expecting me to start playing like I can just play whatever. I know I will get there at some point, but I'm kind of stumped. We both are in the same situation as I dont know any other drummers and he doesnt know anyone else who plays any instrument.
Do i just tell him to stop been a jerk and lead me into the rhythm and see if for some miracle I can play something decent?
Learn to hum the bass part, and then do it slowly until it gets down to your fingers. You’ll be making the brain-fingers connection. I did that with “The Mayor of Simpleton.” What a fun tune, and a feeling of accomplishment when I figured it out. Then I worked on getting it up to speed (slow-downer apps are a great tool for this).Most of the time my brain wants to do something my fingers can't do yet, but Ill work on them anyway.
I'm still fairly new to bass, so I'm working on my chops to be able to come up with basslines and have fun jamming. Met a drummer thru a friend, and he invited me to jam. After insisting for a couple of months, I finally got the courage to do it. Got there thinking I was going to follow his lead since he's been playing for 15 years, but somehow he was expecting me to start playing like I can just play whatever. I know I will get there at some point, but I'm kind of stumped. We both are in the same situation as I dont know any other drummers and he doesnt know anyone else who plays any instrument.
Do i just tell him to stop been a jerk and lead me into the rhythm and see if for some miracle I can play something decent?
He's a drummer. He needs something to drum to. Play something. Anything. He doesn't need to know what notes or chords or key, he just needs you to play something. Just play. He'll do the same.I'm still fairly new to bass, so I'm working on my chops to be able to come up with basslines and have fun jamming. Met a drummer thru a friend, and he invited me to jam. After insisting for a couple of months, I finally got the courage to do it. Got there thinking I was going to follow his lead since he's been playing for 15 years, but somehow he was expecting me to start playing like I can just play whatever. I know I will get there at some point, but I'm kind of stumped. We both are in the same situation as I dont know any other drummers and he doesnt know anyone else who plays any instrument.
Do i just tell him to stop been a jerk and lead me into the rhythm and see if for some miracle I can play something decent?
Got there thinking I was going to follow his lead since he's been playing for 15 years, but somehow he was expecting me to start playing like I can just play whatever.
he's been playing for 15 years
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he doesnt know anyone else who plays any instrument