August to November is 3 months, not 2 months
Perhaps you shouldn't invite people to look more closely at your threads...
According to your posts, you spent from March 2009 to July 2009 auditioning. That's 4 months. Prior to that, you appeared to be someone just getting back into playing after some period by getting involved in trying to get a start-up off the ground...you and your publicist and manager
You joined a band in July 2009, and that did last approximately a year, in which time you apparently were unsatisfied, playing a total of 9 gigs and suffering booking problems that go along with being in a low-level originals band. Call that "stable" if you like, but being in an unsatisfactory situation for a year isn't what I'd call stable.
From July 2010 to January 2011, you spent 6 months auditioning. You did apparently agree to join a band in that time, but decided against the commute after accepting. In January, you miscounted and called it 5 months "The 5 months of auditioning (since NWR broke up)"
Mid-January to the beginning of August is 7 months, not a year.
So, you've spent 13 months of the last 2 1/2 years auditioning, with a bunch of angst and teeth-gnashing...
You describe your band experiences during this period, in large part, as being unsatisfactory because of lack of frequency of playing out. They also have appeared to contain a fair amount of drama, miscommunication and discord. Not exactly the picture of contentment and stability.