Part of this is my fault, since I didn't really go into detail about my situation and goals. I've found that the less I put between my bass and my power amp (GX7), the better. The only problems I've run into is that the preamp gain in my bass is insufficient, so I need some kind of preamp, I do need better eq control than the knobs on my bass, and I crank out noise and destruction-producing frequencies down to negative infinity. I like the sound of my MXR bass DI, and I have an MXR 10-band eq pedal that gives me a little more control, but I want to both boost the bass and at the same time cut bass below a certain level. Cutting bass using the 10-band eq carves too much out of adjacent freqs, as far as I can tell.
When playing live, I don't really worry about FOH, because either they know what they are doing, or they don't, and either way all I can really control is the sound and safety of my own rig. I just point to the direct out on my pedal. Really, I'm either looking for a stand-alone HPF, or a replacement for my preamp that offers control over where and how much I cut bass frequencies.
To belabor the point a little (sorry), take for example how compression is built into many preamps at this point. However, compression is usually relegated to one knob called "Amount". Sure, mabe in all reality this works just fine, but dammit I want to fiddle with the threshold, attack, release, input gain, output gain, and knee separately! I would rather have a preamp with only one knob called "Gain", outsourcing eq and compression. I feel the same way about HPF/LPF, although I do feel someone should be able to squeeze this into a nice parametric eq.