Honestly, it didn't sound like any of these really cut through the mix with the room mic, and that wasn't exactly a hard hitting drummer either.
Your perception of that and opinion on the drummer are your own, but one thing I'd say is it greatly depends on what you are listening through...laptop or other small speakers, headphones and desktop monitors will give different impressions. The audio from any youtube video can only tell you so much, and I wouldn't take from that video that those combos can't be heard with drums.
Lot's of opinions are offered here...I think the primary thing you are considering here is whether, generically, a 1x12 combo (with the speaker size being the limiting factor given consideration) can meet your needs for "home practice and some garage jam sessions with friends, but wanting something that can hold its own on smaller gigs IF you ever join a band".
You can obviously go a number of ways...in my opinion, a 1x12 combo would be a reasonable choice to meet those needs, and likely any from the current crop that have the features that you want could be used satisfactorily. I think it would also be reasonable to assume that some time down the road, you may run into situation where a 1x12 combo is insufficient. With an unknown future, it's also possible that a 1x12 combo could serve you indefinitely...there are small gigs where a 1x12 combo is sufficient as a standalone, and it's also possible that the future hold a PA with the capability of supporting bass and IEMs, and that combo would be sufficient in any situation you'll face.
So, I think that going with a 1x12 combo for your current and immediately foreseeable needs and accepting the possibility of needing to buy again at some point in the future is a valid choice that leaves you open to making your future choice on future available options (i.e., needing something more later isn't necessarily or inherently a negative). It can also be a valid argument that going with a 1x15 (or more) carries you farther into the potential future, so going that route is better preparing you and saving future expense.
I have a 1x12 cabinet and I use it with various heads standalone for rehearsals with acoustic drums, jams, and some small gigs. Because having PA support/IEMs is the norm for me, it's technically sufficient for anything I do, which fully covers the kinds of situations you're looking at and more.
Good luck with your decision.