so the wattages don't have a direct influence over the volume?
meaning that, if i have the 500 watt head, and i played it through a 8x10 it would be much louder if played through a 4x10?
And a 200 watt head could get louder than said 500 watt head if played the the proper speakers?
Wattage, or power,
does have a direct influence over the volume. A 1,000-watt amp will be a lot louder than a 100-watt amp. You just have to make sure you have a speaker system that can handle the power.
Now, for a given head, say a 200-watt head, it will be louder through a 410 cabinet than it will be through a 210 cabinet. So, generally speaking, more power equals more volume, and more speakers equals more volume.
It is conceivable that a 200-watt head through, say, a 410 would be louder than a 500-watt head through a 210 but, given the choice, I'd want the additional power for headroom, if nothing else. There's a trade-off, because the 210 might not handle all 500 watts of the amp, so you wouldn't get the benefit of all the power available.
As an example, most of the amps I gig are in the 750- to 1,200-watt range. I usually run the amp into one 410 cab rated around 500 to 800 watts. Now, I could blow the speakers in these cabs if I cranked the mother all the way up, but an occasional loud note isn't going to kill me, because cabinets can usually handle transients of about twice the rated power. You have to pay attention to how the speakers sound. If you hear farting, turn it down. And no, there's nothing you can do to get more volume when that happens, except get more speakers. Turn it up beyond that, and you will destroy speakers.
If you're thinking about getting a rig for gigging without PA support, I recommend 300 watts as an absolute minimum, and 500 is mo' better. You may not need all that power all the time, but the extra headroom is valuable.
One of my rigs is an Eden WT-800 (1,100 watts at 4 ohms) and a D-410XLT plus a D-210XLT. With this setup, I can mix and match cabs for either 2, 4 or 6 ten-inch speakers. The WT-800 has plenty of power for any of those combinations, and I use the number of speakers to suit the volume required. Six speakers for outdoors, four for medium venues, and two for intimate venues. Of course, I have to use the volume knob judiciously when playing through just the 210, because the WT can put 880 watts into 8 ohms, and the poor little speaker is rated at only 350 watts.
Finally, remember the phrase, "Buy once, cry once." This means you should buy gear that's a little better than what you can absolutely afford. If you don't you will be dissatisfied, and end up selling the cruddy gear to buy what you really wanted in the first place ... you will "cry twice."