@JonathanPDX
I get that. I totally do. And if I had been given a total piece of crap, I’d be more upset. But they provided an Excellent product, albeit just not what I thought I’d ordered. Do I want them to run all over us? No. Do I think they had any ill intentions with fulfilling this order? No. I choose not to be too inflammatory towards folks providing us a service in this current climate (I own my own business, and know how hard it is right now). Hopefully, this will all be taken care of.
I understand that, but you don't need to lower your expectations just to make their job easier. You paid for a product, they didn't deliver, you aren't happy. That's their fault, not yours! They could have either given you a piece of wood to match the images, or said "Since the flame is super important, here's a photo of what we have in stock so you know in advance what we have to work with right now."
They chose to cut corners and give you a crappy piece of wood in hopes that the headache of a return would be daunting enough that you'd accept a lesser product from them.
You don't have to cuss out the customer service rep on the phone or threaten to burn the place down, but you can still demand that they make this right. Charging you to return the thing they screwed up is just absurd.