If you're playing bass to be recognized by everyone and be the center of attention, you're going to have to really work to pull it off. It generally doesn't work. Most bassists are A) doing what they're told to do because they're yesmen, or B) the ones who write a good portion of the material, if not all of it, and care more about the music than the attention.
And a lot of the times, it's because of the fact that we do a lot of things that can make it hard to be heard properly. Mid-scooping, distortion (if used improperly) and other things can bury us in a mix. OR, we're heard, but the listener may assume it's the guitarist who did that part.
I had to check my tone. I was using too much distortion, so some of my lines were attributed to the guitarist. I stopped using my stompbox and people were able to tell the difference of who played what more easily. Before that issue, I was mid-scooping. Because of the lack of mids, I couldn't hear a thing I was playing. The lack of punch kept me from being heard. So that may be something you want to do.
And since everyone wants to play guitar or sing, WE get the monopoly on the local music scene.
And remember, a lot of bassists have their own distinctive styles that don't require complete insanity. RyKnow from Mudvayne and Shavo from SoAD for example. Then there's the oddity of people like Claypool, and then just general rock out madness of people like Steve Harris.