No one? Seriously? Many people who love to play take instruction.
er... not sure what you're referring to - i was talking about people showing emotion while they play. i didn't talk about instruction at all.
TalkBass has been independent since 1998. Add your voice.
Create a free account to reply to discussions, view embedded media, and browse with fewer display ads.
Join free Log in
Want zero display ads or expanded classifieds tools? Compare plans.
No one? Seriously? Many people who love to play take instruction.
er... not sure what you're referring to - i was talking about people showing emotion while they play. i didn't talk about instruction at all.
"i believe there are people who REALLY put their heart and soul into their music without showing it on their faces or showy gestures, and there are others who have lots of facial expressions and gestures but aren't keyed into what they're playing at all. and i strongly believe that no one - not a spouse, grandma, bandmate or anyone else - should change what you're doing or how you're doing it if you love to play".
If you're limiting this to facial gestures/showy gestures or not, cool. If you're talking about any/everything to do with your playing, people often find helpful advice from others.
Let's talk about Grandma for a minute ...Grandma represents the OP's audience. Knowledgeable or not is immaterial. Grandma is just one of very many that hopefully, the OP will have the opportunity to play in front of. If you're playing only for yourself then ignore Grandma's critique. If, however, the goal is to be a successful musician, playing live shows in front of ever-increasing audiences, then others, besides Grandma, will certainly notice the flaws as well. Take Grandma's critique as a motivational force to become a better musician