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I had no idea he was a writer.Mister Hanks is just as good short story writer as he is an actor!
Nice simple stories, well told.
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I had no idea he was a writer.
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''The ordinary man is no fool: he knows he can't be Arnold Schwarzenegger. Nonetheless, the culture reshapes his most basic sense of manhood by telling him as much as it tells the celebrity that masculinity is something to drape over the body, not draw from inner resources; that it is personal, not societal; that manhood is displayed, not demonstrated.''
If men are being turned inside out by an expensive, soul-destroying myth, why aren't they at least protesting? According to Faludi, it's partly because, as with the discontented housewives in Betty Friedan's ''Feminine Mystique,'' their problem has not yet been named. (Faludi's naming it.) And it's because their very masculinity gets in the way of their being able to see what's happening to them. A man is programmed to believe that he must be in control at all times, that he must master his universe. Since men ''are mythologized as the ones who make things happen,'' Faludi asks, ''how can they begin to analyze what is happening to them?'' […]
"We raise boys to live in a world in which they are either winners or losers, grandiose or shame-filled, … perpetrators or victims. Society shows little mercy for men if they fail in the performance of their role. But the price of that performance is an inward sickness."
Terry Real