I am probably guilty of a few "what is the best...?" threads. Funnily enough, however, I have usually ended up getting the bass/amp/effect/whatever that a) I was able to get my hands on physically, b) I could afford, and c) sounded good in action. The only time I really worry about the quality of my gear, or whether its 'good enough', is when I'm on TB reading people's opinions.
Out in the real world though, gear is gear is gear; 99.89% of my audiences are not even musicians, let alone bass players. They enjoyed my band just as much as when I played a Squier and Behringer as when I played a Fender and Hartke. I'd bet that more than a few of us have experienced that tinge of disappointment when we rock up to rehearsal or a gig with some new, fancy bit of gear that TBers drool over, but no one - not even bandmates - could really care either way about it.
I agree. A while back, I had a guy ask me if my Cort was a Warwick (well, it did have a wenge neck).
Seems like most of the time bass only gets noticed when it is missing