I live in an urban townhouse and have to keep the volume reasonable, especially at night when I usually practice.
As a result, my main practice "rig" is a Fender Mustang Micro headphone amp, which is a truly amazing little device. It's designed mostly for guitar (which I also play), but it works well with bass.
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When I'm playing through an amp, it's my old Roland Cube Bass 100, which has some amp models and effects, but I usually play without modeling or effects. I keep the EQ flat too. Unlike many small combos, at least in my experience, the Roland sounds clear and full at home practice levels, and it's good for rehearsals and small gigs too. By contemporary standards it's heavy for a 100 watt 1x12, but the compact dimensions make the weight easy to manage.
I had the same living arrangement, oddly enough I never got complaints.
A lot of smaller combos have an upper bass hump to sound bigger but if it's overdone, it just add mud.
Granted on the topic of flat EQs since many people are mentioning it and I may be preaching to the choir but I've measured a good deal of gear now and flat from the knobs is often not truly flat. Especially weird is that those old passive tonestacks on many tube amps are flattest with TB minimum and mids maxxed.

