Or rather, when they decide to get rid of some **** that doesn't belong to them. No point to this thread really, I am just pissed and need to rant. I've had a nice 30 gallon fish tank for over 3 years now (over 2 years before I got married), with several fish, including two pretty nice catfish I have had for the whole time I had the tank. I had over $200 in this, but it's the whole point of it more than the money issue. I've been really busy with work, sleep, and some studying, and just noticed......where the hell is my aquarium? I woke her up to ask her where it was, to just get a response of "I got rid of it". I instantly flew off the handle, asking where it went. Her response, "I gave it to a friend". She then felt the need to argue with me, saying she was "tired of taking care of it". Okay, fair enough but that's BS for a few reasons. She is the one that offered to feed them in the mornings since my hours are all screwed up, and she never even mentioned a word about it before getting rid of it. She never even mentioned it afterwards, until I asked where my *** damn fish were. This pisses me off to no end, and had this been either or both of the dogs, it would without a doubt be grounds for divorce. Hope she doesn't mind coming up with a couple hundred extra bucks this month to cover the bills since I will be shorting my part. Either that, or maybe have an ebay sale on some of her crap. Oh yeah, since we got married, she also thew in the "half hers" deal too, which just salted the wound and made me even madder. PS, to those single, don't EVER get married.