TL;DR --- while there are good reasons not to share some things on your information page, why not share enough to be helpful to others who may want to be helpful to you, or to give advice to you!?
Not interested. Not happening.
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TL;DR --- while there are good reasons not to share some things on your information page, why not share enough to be helpful to others who may want to be helpful to you, or to give advice to you!?
is that your final say on the matter? what about the chocolate cake at the end?Not interested. Not happening.
toot-tootI yam what I yam and dat’s all what I yam.
I shy away from deets that could help fill in blanks in someones ID theft project. And putting ballpark facts on a profile page just seems silly. When I got started on the internet my first reaction was to just lie whenever people wanted details. (Which obviously isn't going to work for paypal.) I've dialed it back a bit since those days. But I still get birthday wishes all through the year. I guess I could put a year on it. But I figure a decade wont mean any age inappropriate advice, so.... I still see the adbots struggling with my gender. So I'm happy to leave that one blank. Not that gender makes any difference I can see to anyone's bass playing.
When I got on the internet, I'd seen way to many movies with names like Hackers, Crackers, Trackers, etc, and decided to approach this with a healthy dose of scepticism. Turns out most people give Up the banking details to a silver tongued Nigerian rather than having their computer laid bare by a teenage mastermind .also: many seem to think that the most general of 'info' is unsafe, somehow --- and it may be, IDK.
I despise Rics. Wouldn't take one if it was offered to me for free. Would love to throw 10 of them through a wood chipper.
i didn't mean much by it. i've had the experience of thinking i'm responding to a male --- only to find that i'm really addressing a female (and vice versa). if there is no indication, and if the avatar is ambiguous, it can be difficult to know --- and the only party who is ever offended is the one who doesn't want to share that info on their profile page, IME.I'm curious, what you mean by gender appropriate feedback when it comes bass playing, gear, or advice?
It's not a big deal. I cannot count the number of times I've been called "bro" or something similar here but most of the time I don't bother to correct. It's easy to assume that most of us here are guys. Because most of us here are guys.i didn't mean much by it. i've had the experience of thinking i'm responding to a male --- only to find that i'm really addressing a female (and vice versa). if there is no indication, and if the avatar is ambiguous, it can be difficult to know --- and the only party who is ever offended is the one who doesn't want to share that info on their profile page, IME.
it's not a big deal for me. none of this is a big deal for me --- i was just curious about why folks don't share what i/others consider to be basic info. so i started this thread. it's apparent to me now how sensitive some are about sharing stuff.![]()
It's not a big deal.
I only joined a month ago and didn't expect to get very involved in the forums. I came for the Cat Threadi didn't mean much by it. i've had the experience of thinking i'm responding to a male --- only to find that i'm really addressing a female (and vice versa). if there is no indication, and if the avatar is ambiguous, it can be difficult to know --- and the only party who is ever offended is the one who doesn't want to share that info on their profile page, IME.
it's not a big deal for me. none of this is a big deal for me --- i was just curious about why folks don't share what i/others consider to be basic info. so i started this thread. it's apparent to me now how sensitive some are about sharing stuff.![]()
I came for the Cat Thread![]()
I only joined a month ago and didn't expect to get very involved in the forums. I came for the Cat Thread
I did input my age, gender and location in the profile, but not gear, bands, joining clubs and all that yet. I've been more involved than I expected to be, so if that continues, I will fill out that info sometime in the future.
"If you like piña coladasMy address: 4785 Cumberland Ave S Mpls MN 55437
My DOB: 06/23/57
My SSN: 478-98-7145*
Turn ons: long walks on the beach, Puppies!
Turn offs: mean people, Gatorade
*none of that information is real