Well, apparently. And that's kinda the thing. It's just human nature (this is not a dig at you per se) to feel that what seems right to you is the only reasonable conclusion any person could draw. And a soundman might (being human) receive a signal colored like that and conclude that it's just wrong and needs to be fixed...because obviously no reasonable person would want that. I mean, it sounds BAD.
Yeah, it does...to you. But that's the thing. If that's his tone, that's his tone. It is not your call to second guess and change that. You may think its a bad idea, maybe lots of folks agree, maybe you try to get him out there to make your case. And you might persuade him, or maybe not.
But it's his tone. It. Is. Not. Your. Call.
If his tone is muddy, then that's his tone. If his tone is thin, thats his tone. Your "reputation" is not justification for changing hs tone any more than you insisting the singer sing in a different key because he sounds bad out front, and your reputation might be injured by hm sounding bad in that key.
Despite what you may think, I'm happy to listen to suggestions from a soundman who knows what he is doing and wants to work together to make things sound great. But a player's tone is his tone. And if he needs X to get his tone, then it is not his tone without X. Period.
You can suggest, and maybe you really do have a better approach. But it is not your call, as much as you like to think it is.