Awful set list is better than not playing at all
- By Raman
- Miscellaneous [BG]
- 62 Replies
Funny you should mention this.Can take or leave the setlist, but there's NO way I'd ever get in another girlfriend/ boyfriend band for any amount of money. Somebody in the crowd will hit on her, she'll see him eyeing that little number at the bar, and It's On. Or they were in an argument on the way to the job.
No thanks. Uh-huh. I've learned to not smoke in a
The girl who initiated this project...
We used to play together circa 2010. We met when we were both hired on a different guy's project, her as a vocalist and me as a bassist. Following that, we formed a band and played our own songs, plus some heavily adapted covers. It was actually sounding pretty good and we hired a guitar player and drummer, started gigging and recording, etc.
Then, she started dating this guitarist/producer guy from New-York. All of a sudden, the dude was present at every one of our rehearsals and always intervening. Plus, he had that habit that I've always absolutely hated: whenever I'd leave the room to go to the bathroom or anything, I'd come back to find him playing my instrument without having asked.
Without surprise, years later, I learned that he'd been pushing her to fire me as a bassist all along... OUT OF MY OWN PROJECT !
The band broke down over this (and other band members' personal issues).
There is actually a history of such behavior from her. So, ironically, I'm approaching this a lot more relaxed. I'm only an unpaid hired hand and I don't especially like the material. I don't have any marbles invested in this thing. The worst that can happen is I learn those songs for nothing. But, no time spent learning new bass lines is lost time!
So, I'm going in without much expectations, except for an occasion to get back out there and possibly have fun.