i love telling other people how to pend their money.
I find that being disconnected from the money (as in it isn’t your money being spent) can wildly shift how you think about certain transactions. I wish I could partition my brain so that I could give myself the feedback I’d get from someone else when I’m contemplating certain purchases. I’m notorious for dragging out decisions and telling many friends about my frivolous potential purchases. I think I do that to gather external perspective and somehow get comfortable with a purchase before I make it. It helps hearing “that sounds like fun” or “you’re being ridiculous” but I often find that hearing how others view a purchase can solidify why I want a thing (or why I don’t).

