My wife doesn't like me...plain and simple. We have been to many counselling sessions and I try to do everything on her "list" She won't even consider my list until I do 100% of hers. I work full time, drive kids to school, get home, cook dinner, clean up, make lunches. She works half time and I am not allowed to ask what she does with her time. Our house is a cluttered disaster as she is a border line hoarder. We don't fight, there's just nothing there. She thinks she's perfect. She is a great mom. I'm also an alcoholic...I know, I should quit, but I don't get drunk, just drink to numb the lonelieness. We have three kids and are slowly, very slowly, drowning in debt. Divorce is not an option as we could not afford two houses/apartments. Any one else stuck? I would consider an affair, but who would have a fat old father of three still living with his wife! Thanks for letting me vent!