on a cultural, sociological, note, one other thing: the invite was adamant about " no drugs. " 30 or so people showed, including a half dozen players + wives, girlfriends, their neighbors, etc.
the micro brews started flowing, and soon enough cannabis haze wafted. the host is no dummy, wasn't in the least surprised or ticked off, but felt compelled to say " tsk, tsk, c'mon you guys, what the hell? i thought i said no drugs. " the offenders, feeling slightly insulted, replied " i know! we didn't bring any drugs. this is weed. " hee, hee. i was LMAO.