I like playing loud enough to feel it and really get under the groove, but no louder. Then the overall sound of the band becomes a mess.
Unfortunately, many of the clubs we play will bitch LONG before we get to the volume we would like to be at. Definitely takes some of the fun out of it for me, but it's their business and let's face it, selling alcohol is far more important to them than the music, so you have to work with it.
I'm still waiting for the opportunity to run my full stack and see what it can really do. Probably can't do it anywhere except a large outdoor venue...it's a Carvin B1500 running into a 2x10 and 4x10 neo cabs. That's 1900 watts through 6 tens...YEAH BABY!