I call bull. Rock music isn't approaching 150dB, I don't give a rip what band you are.
Most of the rest I'll go along with, but that stat is so far off as to be laughable. I've been on-stage in monitor world for some of the loudest acts out there, and I worked the club scene for a lot of years with seriously loud metal bands. Yes, I wore / wear plugs, I like my hearing...but I've never seen an on-stage measurement above mid 120s. And yes, I agree that is STUPID loud.
As for me, I had the realization that I like my bass seriously loud behind me on-stage (venue allowing). I do have the courtesy to listen to the sound man (I'd be a serious hypocrite if I didn't), but I'll push it as far as they'll let me go. It helps to play venues that are of a little larger capacity.
Lately I've been trying out IEMs, and I think that may be a nice way to go for smaller clubs where I can't push it without overpowering everything. On larger stages, I'll let my pants flap.
-Mark