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Best Compliment/None Compliment you've received

On a gig at a Montreal jazz club:

“Hey you guys are pretty good”
Thanks!
“Maybe some day you will get to do it professionally”
During the '80s, I was making a living (a meagre living, but a living) playing in a band which toured a lot, and many of our gigs were on the college circuit. Often, we'd have conversations with students. Once, one of them asked me, "What do you do for a living?" I replied, "This. Music." She said, "No, playing in bands is what people do when they're kids, or in college. I mean, what do you do for a living?"
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reminds me of a few years ago when my old band were playing
I was in the mens room during a break and 2 guys were talking about the band and our singer
Guy 1 "the bands ok, but their singer is pretty hot"
Guy 2 "seriously dude?? - she's like over 40 and probably has kids and stuff"
Guy 1 "doesn't matter - I'd still give her one...."
Guy 2 "you're sick dude"!
it made me laugh...
 
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Last week, a drunk comes up during a break. Says I am the best local bassist he's ever heard. I don't know how many he's heard but, thanks buddy. He then says his dad played for some famous acts, none of whom I can remember, so he knows a good player when he hears one. Then, in front of the whole band, he asks "what are you doing playing with these guys...?"

Sheesh, bro! :banghead:
 
Punters often thank us and compliment us and that’s nice. That indicates that we haven’t wasted our time and we’ve done a good job. That means we’ve earned our pay but the compliments I value most are the ones I get are from my peers. Musicians that I work with tell me that they love what I do and that it makes their job easier. Those are the compliments I value most. The respect of our peers is what I imagine many of us want to have.
 
From another band we gigged with once in Austin: "Are you guys on speed? I thought your set was rad, but also immediately was like 'these dudes are speedin'"

From my Mom trying to be nice after surprising me at a gig we had "Wow, you guys ummmm well it looks like you guys were having a great time!"

From my guitarists Mom at a different gig "It's not for me but the people here really seemed to like you guys so good job!"

Not really a backhanded compliment but an attempt by my best friend to help me out by using the "sandwich technique" with a terrible band I was in - "Hey guys, nice set. Only thing though is have you ever considered turning down a bit and balancing the volumes? Either way, good set" - I've mentioned that chat on here before cause the response was puuuuuuuuuuuuure "20 year old too cool for school, we're making our ART over here" bull jangle dangle "Ummm, no that wouldn't be Rock 'n' Roll dude".
 
This isn't exactly along the lines of compliments, but it still somehow seems to fit in with the intent of this thread, so I'll include it with apologies...

Many, many years ago I was playing a fairly steady gig in a place up in Alexandria Bay, NY. The piano was horrible, but the band I was in played trad jazz and wanted to stick with a real piano. Typically, I would agree with that sentiment; I'd rather play a very mediocre real piano on a jazz gig, trad, bebop, or whatever, than the best sampled keyboard. Still, this one was so bad, with missing keys, strings, and WAAAYYYY out of tune, that it was an exercise in frustration. I had spoken to the owner of the club a few times, nicely, offering to recommend a piano tech, asking him to get it tuned, and even offering to help defray some of the cost. He was always apologetic for it's condition, but never followed through.

Then, when we showed up for a gig, he greeted us excitedly as we entered the place, and led me over to the piano, smiling from ear to ear. He had had it painted!!! Nothing else.
 
This was last weekend. I did something I never do and I regret it! I subbed for a band I had little knowledge of. Cover band, so, how hard could it be? Got a setlist for a 3 hour gig 2 weeks before. I had played most of it so wasn't concerned. No rehearsal and load in / sound check was straight forward. We got a few songs into the first set and I knew I had made a mistake playing with these guys.

I knew their songs better than they did! We finished the second set and I "needed" a beer! (Something I never do). I was standing at the bar waiting when this guy approached me. He looked me right in the eye and said: " You my friend are an amazing bass player". "The rest of the band should think about selling the instruments that they play"! He just walked away. Wow, but I knew what he was talking about. I was socially embarrassed and left as quick as I could. Never again with these guys. I did it as a favor for a friend. I have no idea why he is with this band either!?
 
This was last weekend. I did something I never do and I regret it! I subbed for a band I had little knowledge of. Cover band, so, how hard could it be? Got a setlist for a 3 hour gig 2 weeks before. I had played most of it so wasn't concerned. No rehearsal and load in / sound check was straight forward. We got a few songs into the first set and I knew I had made a mistake playing with these guys.

I knew their songs better than they did! We finished the second set and I "needed" a beer! (Something I never do). I was standing at the bar waiting when this guy approached me. He looked me right in the eye and said: " You my friend are an amazing bass player". "The rest of the band should think about selling the instruments that they play"! He just walked away. Wow, but I knew what he was talking about. I was socially embarrassed and left as quick as I could. Never again with these guys. I did it as a favor for a friend. I have no idea why he is with this band either!?

IME this truly sucks when it happens, though the more I've subbed, the less it's happened.

Good news: Congrats on achieving closure with these guys; If they call again, you've now got 'em on your "sorry, I'm booked" list.

Also good news: It helps to remind myself it's just a gig; There will probably be others.

To quote the tongue-in-cheek motto of one of the bands I play with, It's only sound... It'll go away.

Yeah. We have tee shirts.
 
My first ever band did a live video back in 1991? of a gig we did at the 'battle of the bands' contest at a venue that was pulled down in the late 1990's and turned into apartments
Anyway one day I took the video cassette of our 30 min set to my parents to watch... and needless to say they weren't that impressed (we were a 3 piece alternative pop / rock band) My dad had obviously never heard a guitar being played through a distortion pedal before and he said "he needs to get his guitar or amplifier fixed because it shouldn't sound like that".... he also suggested he take guitar lessons!
funnily enough that's the exact reaction from my Father I thought I'd get....
 
"Can yall turn down that beautiful sh*tshow so i can hear these drink orders" -Bartender
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