Happily reading how this thread found its way.
Sometimes we want an answer, but we get a direction. @Jazz Ad provided a rich orientation, itself worthy of study, which reminds me of an anecdote Paulo Freire used to describe studying a problem: a couple of guys in a truck get stuck in a stream. They get out and spend some time studying the problem before they decide how to proceed. OP received a way in to solve the Bright Sized Life problem, and the underpinnings of a process to solve many more.
Sometimes we want an answer, but we get a direction. @Jazz Ad provided a rich orientation, itself worthy of study, which reminds me of an anecdote Paulo Freire used to describe studying a problem: a couple of guys in a truck get stuck in a stream. They get out and spend some time studying the problem before they decide how to proceed. OP received a way in to solve the Bright Sized Life problem, and the underpinnings of a process to solve many more.