I wouldn't put my money on it, sometimes you just need a break and that's all there is.
Maybe paint or do pottery or something.
Maybe paint or do pottery or something.
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If it's possible, start playing with someone first. Then, think about changing your equipment. IME, once you start playing, the need for different equipment will taper off if your equipment is decent and appropriate in the first place. For me it's more rewarding to being a bass player first, a bass collector second or not at all.
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If she is pleasantly squirmy.or Can a new/different wife re-ignite the "passion"?![]()
So I have 3 basses, all very good. Within the past few months I have been just "walking" by them at night when I usually play. The other day I strapped one on, played a song and put it back..I just don't seem to have that drive to play lately. I certainly have had my share of highs and lows in the past 20 years but this seems more different lately. Although I still peek at the classifieds and think I would like to have some of them, my brain goes right back to my lack of passion lately---and don't buy/trade anything. Anyone been in this situation and buy a totally different bass, and the passion starts up again? Hopefully this is completely normal...maybe there is no solution..
In a word. Yes a new bass can reignite the passion. It has for me many times.
I gotta tell you man, and I keep harping on this but it's the absolute truth. I just bought a Stratocaster and I'm taking lessons at a local university and I can't put the thing down; BUT, I picked up my bass today (just stopped playing actually), and it felt REALLY good. I learned Wish You Were Here by Pink Floyd on guitar (it was homework), so I decided to learn the bass part as well. It was fun and I'll upload it to youtube soon.So I have 3 basses, all very good. Within the past few months I have been just "walking" by them at night when I usually play. The other day I strapped one on, played a song and put it back..I just don't seem to have that drive to play lately. I certainly have had my share of highs and lows in the past 20 years but this seems more different lately. Although I still peek at the classifieds and think I would like to have some of them, my brain goes right back to my lack of passion lately---and don't buy/trade anything. Anyone been in this situation and buy a totally different bass, and the passion starts up again? Hopefully this is completely normal...maybe there is no solution..
LOLCan a new/different bass re-ignite the "passion?"
A farmer pokes his head into a barn and sees his friend dancing and slowly taking his cloths off. The friend shouts, Cletus! What the heck are you doing? He explains that he and his wife are having some problems in the bedroom department. His doctor suggested that he do something romantic to a tractor.
Maybe you need to have your ears cleaned.
Good advice here. I remember seeing a Harry Truman quote once (paraphrased a bit); when you're not sure what to do next, just do what's in front of you. The inspiration will follow.i've been playing for many decades .. being in that ' not to interested state ' has caused me to sell a few things that i'll always regret ... i don't think that blaming the 'mood' on the wood is accurate .. !
maybe learn something very musically different .? the challenge might help ...
try listening to some different than normal styles ... maybe you'll hear something you'd like to master . ?!
even when i don't feel like being creative , i know i need to keep my fingers moving ... !!! helps the arthritis at my age ... pushing 60 ... ahhhhhh ... started play at age 6 ..
i'll find a couple challenging finger type exercises and ' do them ' ... !! sadly , it's more like ' working out ' than music ... but it usually leads to some better technique , which is always a bit inspiring .. !!
I was in a similar rut for a while. I realized that it was actually the space where I spent my time playing. It was a bit unorganized, I rearranged the whole room and for whatever reason it made the space more desirable to play in.
Many times? That sounds like it was only ignited temporarily each time...