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Hey don't sweat it maybe you are a better person and bass player than he is! Just because he has a bass t-shirt he bought in K-mart doesn't make him a great bass player. And think of it this way maybe the reason he did not say anything to you is because you are both thinking the same thing he is a better player then I am? Keep rocking the bottom.Our band was the 3rd to play at a small concert at my church. The others were duets w/o amps playing thru the PA and we went up with our amps and stuff. I saw a big longhaired guy in the back with a bassist T-shirt on and i started fighting self-consciousness thinking that there was no way I would be able to hide the fact that I was green.
We did a 12 song set and the first 2 were rough with several wrong notes. The second song was a little better till I got lost for a measure! (we had just practiced 3 hours before and played solid on everything!) Made the mistake?? of looking over at the bassplayer dude and he was looking away and I thought, "uh oh", I've failed, I'm doomed!
No, don't think that, the band is depending on me for 9 more songs! Besides, we've done it all before plenty of times. My wife and FIL are standing and clapping and swaying happily! Cool! Maybe things aren't that bad after all.
The PA is WAY too LOUD! Too! Oh, Well! Anyway the jitters gradually faded and I was able to play the rest OK. By the end, "Spirit in the Sky" I was doing fine and the audience was really into it! And there was some planned audience participation that went great even when we all dropped out perfectly on cue and came back in right on sync. That was really great since that was the part we struggled with the most in practice.
The guy with the t-shirt came up and congrat the other guys and never even looked my way. Which was cool, since there was really no reason he should have. But, it was a good experience. I just wish I could play in the presence of other bass players and get some advice on playing and get a better idea of whether I'm good or bad for the band. At least where I'm at in the learning curve right now.
Swaynard B. Kleft
we have a outside gig at harley dees in carbonares almeria spain on may 2nd with a new guitarist and a new singer and its my first gig in six months with 24 NEW SONGS..............AAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i will let you know how we got on(or maybe i will just crawl into a small hole)it all pivots on californication.
. There may be 1000 people there.Went into the weekend feeling a little pain in my back and chest area. As I had a procedure the week before for 2 fractured discs in my spine, I wasn't concerned. Pain kept increasing Friday night. I was able to do my 2 gigs on Saturday but had to cancel Sundays gig. Turns out I was having a reaction to one of the drugs they're giving me to fight my cancer. This reaction is the equivalent of a 4 day flu. Its starting to subside but it really threw me for a loop.Saturday: A Capella in the afternoon, Clubdate at night
Sunday: A Spanish clubdate wedding. Lots of requests for Spanish music
Okay Sat night went well I was surprised at the turn out which wasn't our best but, not bad considering the crazy weather (high winds with trees coming down every where!) and the night before Mother's Day. I was hurting from the beginning with my back problem nawin' at me like a toothache and getting progressively worse as the night wore on. But while I was on stage I jumped around like I was 16 and couldn't even sit down during our 2nd set break. Our drummer had something that made him sick and he nearly passed out before the second to last song in Set 3 so we pulled the plug on the rest of the night which was about 4 minutes left to go. Owner had no problem we helped him pack up and got out round 2AM road I usually take home was closed due to a fallen tree so drove around town an extra 20 minutes trying to find my way out of there. Jumped on the Garden St. finally and got home just before 3AM. Next show this Sat.I just realized the Sat. night gig is the night before Mothers Day!
I have had bad turn-outs playing the night before, because people do not want to go out both days. Do any other TBer's find this situation to be true? Not sure what our booking agent was thinking