TalkBass has been independent since 1998. Add your voice.
Create a free account to reply to discussions, view embedded media, and browse with fewer display ads.
Join free Log in
Want zero display ads or expanded classifieds tools? Compare plans.
HA! Can you go home a little bit?
We had an older lady at a VFW gig once ask me if I could turn the drums down. Of course, they were acoustic drums played by a live drummer (not a drum machine). I wasn't even the drummer for the show. I was thinking, "Your at a bar with live music. You should go somewhere quiet--like home--if you don't like it."
If asked to tone it down I would show the person a bass eq pedal.
"Ssssssure Ma'am, which of these here frequencies are causing a problem with tone?".
I think your story makes sense, but I do think it's the exception. You know that usually when you are playing in a locale that sells alcohol, it's only going to be one person who wants to you "tone it down". Most of the rest of them are going to start yelling at you to "crank it up" as they drag someone onto the dance floor for some shuckin' & jivin'.Hey, if enough people think you're too loud (and vote with their feet) then the band ain't going to get a call back!!.
I recall being in a pickup band starting a residency - 6 nights/week for as long as I needed and good money too - where the drummer's attitude to the club management's request to "tone it down" was - "I need to play that loud to get my sound/feel/attack". Well the bar staff needed to hear what drinks the punters were ordering, so we got another drummer who could get his sound/feel/attack at a volume the club management found acceptable, else we'd ALL have lost the gig!!!.