Hey there peeps. Sounds like many of you had an enjoyable Thanksgiving.

I wish I could say the same - it's been a bit of a rough week. Had a gig Wed. night that started off great but ended in disaster (details in a bit); had a number of unexpected guests on Thanksgiving (not of the sweet Great Aunt Myrtle variety, more of the questionable friends that my questionable nephew brought along because they had nowhere else to go variety); we had to end out traditional black Friday outing early because my cold turned into bronchitis/ pneumonia (it's not really about the shopping for us; it's about having uninterrupted girl time where we can lapse into sleep-deprived silliness); and I ended the week by being on-call this weekend (the one part of my job I truly hate). I guess if there's something I'm thankful for, it's that Thanksgiving week is over, lol.
So, details on the gig... It started out great. We were tighter musically than at our last gig, and being the night before Thanksgiving, (most) everyone was relaxed and in a celebratory mood. To make things better, a bassist friend of mine who was really helpful to me in Sonic Cherry days (taught me the 12 bar blues back when I'd only been playing a couple of months) came out to see the show and agreed to sit in for a few songs so I could dance with my girls. Yay!! Getting to dance and play music and hang a little with my family/ friends... I was loving this gig. This vid was early in the night...
Then around midnight, as the bar was in full swing, our hothead drummer completely lost it over being jealous of some guy dancing with his wife (there was no grinding happening - they weren't even touching each other, just dancing) and threw his drumsticks across a crowded dance floor to try to hit the guy. Missed him completely, but knocked a girl's beer over on a table behind him, spilling it all over her. Then he came from behind his drumset (in the middle of a song, mind you) and attacked the guy. My hubby pulled him off the guy after only one hit, but he had knocked the guy down. Bar erupted with folks now ticked and screaming at the drummer and ready to kill him. Bar owner told us we'd better get the drummer out of there quick bc it was not looking good. I was sure he was gonna get jumped the minute he stepped outside. Somehow he managed to get his drum kit out and leave without further incident, in no small part thanks to my hubz and brother-in-law (who I did not ask to keep the peace, but they chose to help get the drummer out of there safely anyway - later they said they just didn't want me to have a worse night by more fighting, and of course no one wanted the cops called either...). So, gig ended early; bar (understandably) refused to pay us; and no more fun for that night. :/
The good news, though, is that we had a contingency plan bc it was looking like something could go bad with this drummer (we just didn't expect it to go so spectacularly bad and at a gig!) - and we have a sub in place already for the upcoming gigs (we are scheduled through May, the next one in is two weeks). Plus I'm hoping to get our old drummer (the one we had prior to hotheaded drummer) back after his surgery. He's a fantastic drummer, nice, dependable, fun, and locking in with him was effortless. (Funny how you don't know how much you've really enjoyed someone until you miss them!) So it will all work out I think.
And anitbiotics, steroids, and breathing treatments are starting to help clear my lungs so that's been better too.
Anyway, sending warm thoughts out to all of you, and I sincerely hope that any of you who had gigs this week had far better experiences, lol.