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Dating websites : yay or nay?

#261
David Jayne said:
Looks like you might be getting a raise ....... :-D
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Fat girl is hitting on me again. Today I was getting a drink and by chance she was standing there and she puts her finger and starts stirring my drink. I was going to say something like I'd drink it but I don't know where she's had that finger. I don't want to get fired. Lol but tbh she's got nice boobs.

Should I go to church with my mom? Our ac broke so one her church friends came over to fix it and he brought his wife and daughter over and the girl was pretty cute and I think she was checking me out or looking at my big ass pimple. Maybe I'm clueless. My mom told me that the girls mom asked her if I was married.
 
#262
Captain Chaos said:
Fat girl is hitting on me again. Today I was getting a drink and by chance she was standing there and she puts her finger and starts stirring my drink. I was going to say something like I'd drink it but I don't know where she's had that finger. I don't want to get fired. Lol but tbh she's got nice boobs.

Should I go to church with my mom? Our ac broke so one her church friends came over to fix it and he brought his wife and daughter over and the girl was pretty cute and I think she was checking me out or looking at my big ass pimple. Maybe I'm clueless. My mom told me that the girls mom asked her if I was married.
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You're in with both. Hit the chubby without shame. Then start dating the other girl.
 
#264
Captain Chaos said:
Fat girl is hitting on me again. Today I was getting a drink and by chance she was standing there and she puts her finger and starts stirring my drink. I was going to say something like I'd drink it but I don't know where she's had that finger. I don't want to get fired. Lol but tbh she's got nice boobs.

Should I go to church with my mom? Our ac broke so one her church friends came over to fix it and he brought his wife and daughter over and the girl was pretty cute and I think she was checking me out or looking at my big ass pimple. Maybe I'm clueless. My mom told me that the girls mom asked her if I was married.
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Fat girl coworker: Sounds to me like you should find out what her story is. If she just wants to have sex, then go for it. If she wants more, then maybe not a good idea. Just keep it outside of work, and define clear boundaries with her. If she game for some fun, go for it! If you don't like it the first time, then say it's not my thing and be done with it.

Church girl: If she's cute and she's asking about you through her mom, then it sounds to me like you have a good chance of getting something started with her. Take her on a date, she if you guys have some common ground, and see what happens.
 
#266
DeathFromBelow said:
I love the whole "eew, fat girl" thing. She's probably a worthless human being because she doesn't fit into the stereotypical media created "skinny hawt girl" image we all know and love.

Disgusting.
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Agreed, girls have too much of a stigma against them for things that shouldn't be an issue (another one I've learned to treasure? Natural hair. Tho now that it's a movement I'll get plenty lol).

Dammed if you do/don't.
 
#267
DeathFromBelow said:
I love the whole "eew, fat girl" thing. She's probably a worthless human being because she doesn't fit into the stereotypical media created "skinny hawt girl" image we all know and love.

Disgusting.
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Who said "eew fat girl" on this thread?

Everyone has their ideal woman, for some it's super skinny, others it's fat, and some (like me) prefer in-between. Go with what you like, not what everyone else tells you to like.
 
#270
Captain Chaos said:
Fat girl is hitting on me again. Today I was getting a drink and by chance she was standing there and she puts her finger and starts stirring my drink. I was going to say something like I'd drink it but I don't know where she's had that finger. I don't want to get fired. Lol but tbh she's got nice boobs.

Should I go to church with my mom? Our ac broke so one her church friends came over to fix it and he brought his wife and daughter over and the girl was pretty cute and I think she was checking me out or looking at my big ass pimple. Maybe I'm clueless. My mom told me that the girls mom asked her if I was married.
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Quoted for sheer win content.
 
#274
scorpionldr said:
Well, the implication is regardless of redeeming characteristics you either find her fat unattractive or you feel getting involved with her will involve her breaking you, physically.....
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I don't deal in implied, and never implied that in the first place, and don't like assumptions. If you actually knew me, and you sure as F*&( don't, you would know that I don't judge people by anything but their actions, and you would know that I don't have a problem with size and/or weight of a woman, whether super skinny or way overweight, and all points in-between. If I didn't say it, then I didn't say it, period. Don't assume something that isn't there.
 
#275
crucislancer said:
I don't deal in implied, and never implied that in the first place, and don't like assumptions. If you actually knew me, and you sure as F*&( don't, you would know that I don't judge people by anything but their actions, and you would know that I don't have a problem with size and/or weight of a woman, whether super skinny or way overweight, and all points in-between. If I didn't say it, then I didn't say it, period. Don't assume something that isn't there.
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My bad, you were involved in cheese's fat girl moment. Misread.
 
#276
scorpionldr said:
My bad, you were involved in cheese's fat girl moment. Misread.
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No worries. I just wanted to make sure y'all know where I'm coming from. I've dated quite a few women that would be considered overweight, some more so then others, as well as some that are pretty skinny. If you like them, you find them attractive, and there is chemistry, then their weight isn't an issue, right?

The lady that I had a date with last week is a bit larger then average, and she's actually a little taller then me, and I found that really fascinating. I'm looking forward to seeing her again but I don't know when that will be because she's a teacher and the first few weeks of school are usually time consuming, having dated teachers in the past I understand that. So, we'll see.

And, started talking to someone else the other day, though it's too early to tell if we'll be meeting in the near future.
 
#277
crucislancer said:
No worries. I just wanted to make sure y'all know where I'm coming from. I've dated quite a few women that would be considered overweight, some more so then others, as well as some that are pretty skinny. If you like them, you find them attractive, and there is chemistry, then their weight isn't an issue, right?

The lady that I had a date with last week is a bit larger then average, and she's actually a little taller then me, and I found that really fascinating. I'm looking forward to seeing her again but I don't know when that will be because she's a teacher and the first few weeks of school are usually time consuming, having dated teachers in the past I understand that. So, we'll see.

And, started talking to someone else the other day, though it's too early to tell if we'll be meeting in the near future.
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The only limit I put on my girls is if their fluff passes their frame (at an extreme), I have to begin weighing pros/cons, personally. I used to take whoever out but I got health conscious.

My gf is finishing up her last year in college. I wonder if I'm taking classes myself. It will be an eventful fall.
 

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