It's clear your mind is not for rent, but I am putting you down as arrogant.
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Did I screw up, or am I a hero?
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Discretion is the better part of valor.
Sometimes you have to weigh what it costs you to listen to a no-talent chump wreck your favorite song against looking like a jerk and a show-off. Better to surprise people in a good way than a bad way.
From now on, for better or worse, you'll always be 'That Guy'.
Sometimes you have to weigh what it costs you to listen to a no-talent chump wreck your favorite song against looking like a jerk and a show-off. Better to surprise people in a good way than a bad way.
From now on, for better or worse, you'll always be 'That Guy'.
Fools RUSH in where angels fear to tread...
Sorry. I shouldn't have done that...
Sorry. I shouldn't have done that...
Heel... until you apologized, now you are none of the above.
For all we know, the poor guy had been waiting for this opportunity for some time, and took all the courage he could muster to get up on the stage.
For all we know, the poor guy had been waiting for this opportunity for some time, and took all the courage he could muster to get up on the stage.
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"Nobody's Hero" lol
Seriously though, no you don't let people butcher Rush tunes. You did the right thing. More power (windows) to you.
I understand your displeasure with the way he was butchering the song, for sure! I think that would've been a lot for me to take also. However, the real you needed to shine through in this situation. As bad as it sounded, that's the best that guy could do at that point in time, obviously. I would've just let him finish the song and when he came down off the stage, give him a high-five and say "nice job". I know that's not being completely honest, but I think it would have been the appropriate thing to do in that type of situation. I can't point the finger at you. There's a possibility that I may have done the same thing. Wait, no… I'm a terrible singer!
Im voting not cool at all. Statistically its likely there have been shows youve played where a better bass player was in the crowd. Imagine them doing that.
Total narcissistic heel move on your part. It wasn't about you, but you made it about you.
People at parties indulge in this kind of thing to have FUN. Your little demonstration of talent went against that whole process. It isn't an audition. It is a party. Tom Sawyer isn't a religion - it is one of many tracks played for the entertainment and FUN of the party goers. Consider if your girl friend / wife was up there belting out 'Hit Me With Your Best Shot' and his wife pulled the same exact stunt. How would you / she feel remembering that it is a community party for FUN - not a talent show.
If I were there I would think your behavior was a response to your not being asked to play again this year. Or maybe a response to the current band being funner for the crowd than your band was. I wasn't there but things to ponder.
I vote dick move.
If I were there I would think your behavior was a response to your not being asked to play again this year. Or maybe a response to the current band being funner for the crowd than your band was. I wasn't there but things to ponder.
I vote dick move.
If you have to ask, you already know the answer (right).
Perhaps it was just the opportunity to be in the "Limelight"...you know, you probably felt that living on the lighted stage was approaching the unreal, at least for those that think and feel. You found yourself cast in an unlikely role, ill-equipped to act, and with insufficient tact, there were no barriers and therefore you did react.
Perhaps it was just the opportunity to be in the "Limelight"...you know, you probably felt that living on the lighted stage was approaching the unreal, at least for those that think and feel. You found yourself cast in an unlikely role, ill-equipped to act, and with insufficient tact, there were no barriers and therefore you did react.
About 10 years ago we used to play at a local animal club three nights weekly. This club had an organizational hierarchy. The ruler was a super nice guy and was in charge of entertainment. He paid us well and was always supportive. We lucked out and had a halloween on a Friday and the club threw a halloween party. He came in dressed like Elvis. He came up and asked if he and a couple friends could do a couple songs. We agreed, it was supposed to be fun.
We played Hound Dog and a couple more Elvis tunes for him. He started with a wireless mic and was grunting into the mic while he danced around the audience like Elvis. The crowd went wild. It was obvious to us onstage that he couldn't sing so the guitarist and I backed way off our mics and quietly sang the song-- very low-- so it would seem like he was singing the songs. You could barely hear us and we were in the shadows onstage. At the end, everyone gave him a rollicking cheer. They thought he sang and loved his dance and enthusiasm.
People do karaoke for fun. They're not there to exactly produce a Rush song, maybe they want to sing poorly a song they loved in high school or something. At that time it's best to let them have their moment in the limelight. I know I already posted but I've seen things like this happen and I can't stress enough how much it bothers me. Peace.
We played Hound Dog and a couple more Elvis tunes for him. He started with a wireless mic and was grunting into the mic while he danced around the audience like Elvis. The crowd went wild. It was obvious to us onstage that he couldn't sing so the guitarist and I backed way off our mics and quietly sang the song-- very low-- so it would seem like he was singing the songs. You could barely hear us and we were in the shadows onstage. At the end, everyone gave him a rollicking cheer. They thought he sang and loved his dance and enthusiasm.
People do karaoke for fun. They're not there to exactly produce a Rush song, maybe they want to sing poorly a song they loved in high school or something. At that time it's best to let them have their moment in the limelight. I know I already posted but I've seen things like this happen and I can't stress enough how much it bothers me. Peace.
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Heel. Definitely a dick move.
You could have waited for your chance to sing a Rush song. You didn't need to take it away from someone else.
But I just saw your later post that you contacted him and offered a sincere apology. Good on you.
You could have waited for your chance to sing a Rush song. You didn't need to take it away from someone else.
But I just saw your later post that you contacted him and offered a sincere apology. Good on you.
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What is a "local animal club"?
And, I guess, are there regional or internationals?
You probably know the answer to this question.
What would Geddy have done?
What would Geddy have done?
One of the best darn lessons my WW2 father ever taught me. Saved my butt many a time when I abided by it, sometimes awkward/embarassing/regretable situations occurred when I didn't.
Thank you for posting it.
If you have played professionally for a while you most likely would have come across some 'animal clubs.' Moose, Elks, etc. And yes, they have 'regional and international.' There are many local chapters throughout the U.S. we played for years while travelling. These groups provide many public services and provide employment for bands.
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