Yes, I think a skilled audio tech out in the audience chamber is in a better position to evaluate and make adjustments to the mix than someone who is on stage behind the PA.
I am not saying that the audio tech is going to mix exactly like you want. Then again, it's unlikely that you would be able to create the exact mix you would want either. Unfortunately it typically does not work that way. Usually you simply do the best you can, and often the result is far from ideal.
If you were to ask every person in your band to create the ideal mix, IMHO most likely the mixes will be noticeably different. My point is everyone has a different idea of how each instrument should sound and how the mix should sound overall...it's not just the audio tech. The point is the audio tech can't make everyone happy, and they really should not try to do the impossible.
That does not mean you should accept an audio tech that does not mix the way you and your bandmates want. If there is consensus in the band that the audio tech is not working out, hire someone else. Unfortunately if someone else is hiring the audio tech, you may not be able to call the shots. In this case, the choice may be don't work at a certain venue.
Ultimately if you and your audio tech(s) are happy with a a post DI with a boost at 800hz...I don't have any concern for your specific situation

. My concern is more general. While I agree post EQ can work and can even be preferrable in some situations, it does have a much higher tendency of causing problems than Pre. A big part of the problem is because it doesn't actually work the way most people think it does.